You will have lots of outside influences, in the worlds mind once we are officially dumped we should just get our own back, fleece them, take them to the cleaners and revel in all the glory!

Just one small hitch, most of us still love the silly beggars, and arnt ready to call it a day, and why should we, we put all our energy into our marriages, and most of us on here respect the fact we said "till death us do part" and the only reason we'd want to change them is to murder the silly H/W ourselves lol!

I even had my own S (22) telling me that his dad was gone and wasnt going to change his mind and move on! Ironically later on he managed to tell his father that he should "just get some sense and go back to mum" lol!

Its not a crime to stand for your marriage, as long as you are standing for yourself first and the standing for your marriage happens as a bonus!

Chin up hope you do an interesting job and it keeps your mind off things x

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!