Clark,

I'd really like to say that I could hold tight and keep my distance, but I've been doing that for over 7 months and we've gotten nowhere =O/ My lack of pressure and presence in her life has just allowed her to continue her affair at will and it's just come to the point where she won't give me any more time.

She thinks that a divorce will set her free to be happy again...and nothing has been able to convince her otherwise.

I honestly don't know if there is anything I could say or do right now to keep her from filing...and I'm not sure I could go any longer either.


M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children