Wife abandoned me...Now What?

[Mike.4545]

To answer another question, the OM is 25, single, and never married. 3 years younger than my wife, and 4 years younger than me.

I would also agree that the age we started our relationship likely has been a factor. Bad, non-productive habits were definitely formed by both her and I, and unfortunately were not addresses or broken even as we've grown and matured over our relationship.