Originally Posted By: hope for zen
The next question of course is… what should I DO?

1. Continue to detach from H.

2. Decide what, if anything I can do to help my D3.

3. Continue to work to GAL.

4. Decide if I want to “leave the door open.” Do I want him to come home anymore? I know he has clearly stated his intent, but this question is about me, not him. I am sure I don’t want him as he is. What if he came back? What then? Then again, maybe I should just put this question aside and deal with it only if my H clearly wants to come back.

5. Enjoy my night with my daughter tonight. I will have my baby with me. We will do some art, watch a movie, and eat some ice cream. What could be sweeter?
wink


You sound really good right now and yes, you have a few things to ponder.

I do know one thing you shouldn't do....


Look at the texts anymore. You have your confirmation, that's all you needed.


Don't stand still.