Well, I know I can do better, that is for sure! Better for me, that is. With the kids, I think I am doing the “right” things. He is a cheating a$$, as you say, but the kids found out not through me, but because he drove 12 hours from here with OW and was seen by someone and the news got around and the boys learned it from old middle school class mates.
That "but" I highlighted.......
Does not make an excuse to not do better for them.
However they found out, they need you , to learn compassion, and how to act through adversity.
They can learn Anger anywhere...
Please remember that it isn't your job to nourish a relationship between them...
