"If her family keeps on her and refuses to ever accept OM then I think she will eventually give him up."
Nope. There have been more times than not here on the boards that show that even when there was exposure to the family, they didn't do anything. It worked in a handful of cases, but I don't see it happening very often. I think that's why DR tells you to not involve family. I think you could tell them, but don't expect them to get involved. They'll usually side with blood.
If you follow the thread carefully Bond he already did reveal the affair to WW's family and they sided with HIM and not their daughter...
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