Hi Rabbit, thank you for dropping back in. I am almost through your sitch. Will have to admit I feel a bit hopeless in my situation after reading your story...
My 180s Do things other than the residency... have a life - bought a motorcycle, something he and I always have enjoyed, (made him very interested but didn't pull him out of the fog) - started going to church, had really let go of God several years ago, have really accepted Him back into my life for me... plus, H often gave me a little nudge about not believing in God - reconnected with my family... something I greatly needed to do - exercising consistently... always have been inconsistent with this, now in the best shape of my life - in Sept I gave a couple of talks and rocked them, public speaking was a challenge and I was a wreck in the past, taking it out on him... he noted the change and said it was like I was a 'different person' - dress better at work because I fell better about me... since he hasn't/won't tell anyone at work, it gets back to him to a degree even if he doesn't see me in the hospital - smile more and am more outgoing everywhere, not just at work
Ok, that is all I can think of right now. I am at work and will add more as they come to me. I really appreciate your input, sorry for all the emotional crap you had to wade through reading my thread!!
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
