Good news: She called me on the phone today to have a big R talk. I was kinda surprised. She apologized for last night then launched into everything.
The best part of the convo was that she said "I'm taking divorce off the table for now."

It's a HUGE relief. I do think somethings I learned in my short time here really, really help and the fact that it was so early on also helped.
She also brought up sleeping together in the same room. I think she was seeing where I was. I said I wanted to but would give her the time to decide.

She did admit that we still have a lot of work to do and she doesn't know what could happen after that. No guarantees. She still might want a trial separation to clear her head.
I am very hopeful, very.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.