I reckon I've back slid away from the validating thing. It's hard to take heat for parts of this mess I'm not responsible for.
I just hung up from the court house. The case that she said she had dismissed is still on the calander. I take this as an act of deception. If this is the case, I don't know that I want to be with such a person. I'll just have to show up and pay out legal fees.
I hope I'm wrong. Those clerks at the court house are tired of hearing from me I know. Several times in a day. But, I can't take the chance.