The thing that jumped out in reading your thread was when you W got upset over advice. We women can be a bit sensitive about this -- I know it has already been said, but I'm not sure why, and I know I am too, but getting advice, when not asked, gets under our skin.
What are your plans for after the holiday?
Dagny
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW