Not but an hour ago my STBX wife informed me that her co worker boy friend and her just purchase a home together. The initial wave of emotion was strong but brief. Without the help of all on this site I would not have been able to understand the emotion of loosing someone whom you have loved for 14 years. The stages of recovery for me have been long and difficult but I can say I am happy for them and most of all I am alive, breathing have two daughters who love me and most of all I WILL BE OK. To all who have been reading my post be strong with your own issues. May god be in your corner. As all the cool kids say…………..I’m out. Stitch.