Right now I have one goal, that is to somehow help W doubt her decision to end the M.
Do that by doing this:
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Coach has told me I have to re-connect with W emotionally: reflective listening, validating, active listening, attentive but not pursuing, all the do's and don'ts. Coach said W has to once again regard me as being her best friend and partner.
As for working on yourself?
How much fun is it posting here? Find, kill and fix the things that were your failings in the marriage. Look long and hard at yourself with an honest eye.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
