She told me to be miserable, divorce, or detatch and go on with my life.
What are you choosing ?
I chose to stay married and work on the marriage, she cannot tell me when but she stopped trying along time ago, the last time she went to the MC was the first time we talked to her seperately and our MC is pro marriage, after that MC kept asking me to try to get her to talk to someone even if it was not her.
She said she did not want to talk with anyone else yet she chose to talk to another man.
Yes i still love her and i want my family, it is not about control for me anymore but wanting that open and honest relationship. She does not want that and has not been transparent for a year.
