All I can think is that maybe he is starting to realize how much he is missing out on. Who knows?
The most interesting thing about having my H peek out of his MLC fog is learning the things he was ACTUALLY thinking over the last year. He CONTINUES to regret not being there for D's significant events. He has told me flat out how difficult it was to miss out on all the events that at the time, I barely thought he was even recognizing. Underneath, many MLCers are extremely depressed and sad at what they are missing, they REALIZE what they are missing, and yet feel powerless to do anything about it which doesn't help their ability to NOT be depressed and NOT feel powerless. It's really quite sad. I think in an attempt to not completely fall apart, they play the "aloof" game. All we can do is document document document document so that when and if they wake up, they can KIND of relive those precious moments.
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
