I have stepped back, im not responding to W texts or calls as its just to hard for me emotionally. I have blocked her on facebook and my cell. She has sent me an email.
She wants my support for the next 30 days. She wants me to work with her. She will live at her friends place, have no contact with the OM and only talk to me via text or the book i pass back and forth with the kids. All topics will be about the kids.
She wants to take time for herself and figure out her wants and needs, something she admits I was right about in the beginning. this is where I need advise.
She has arrears on her car she needs to pay, the car is at the dealership. She has car insurance she has to pay and living expenses. She is asking me to help her by driving kids back and forth from my town to the city she lives in, during this period of time. She set 30 days as a timeline so I would have a time frame for any committment from me if a agree. She acknowledges that I dont believe anything she says, but she says she truley needs to figure this out for herself. It may take longer than 30 days and she is aware of that, but she wants me to work with her on this.
I have done everything wrong up to this point, so i am looking for guidance on this matter from others on what to do.