I too feel like I am in a good place. A place more of observation than reaction. It took 4 years to get here though. So much damage has been done. Just when you think that was the last straw, something worse comes along. I often stop myself and wonder how the heck I did it all, but God has been a strength for me. I give him all the credit.
My ex keeps spinning. More and more trips. Number 35 in a week. He will no longer control my life or dominate my emotions. Life is too short to sit and mourn forever. I keep thinking there has to be a reason for all we have been through. Maybe what happened will be the path we were suppose to be on. You have been a treasure and a inspiration to me. God Bless
Trusting
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
