Dear FMV, thinking of you! Don't be afraid to "dump" here as all the issues that affect your core being affect the M.
Please try the "Bright Mood" blend of Omega... My IC recommended to me, and has helped immensely... They were proven in a Harvard Study to be just as if not more as antidepressants, without the nasty (libido killing) effects. It's the EFA/DHA ratio that matters. I'm also using Gaba for calming, and if course WALKING.
I've had to walk my way out of any depression I've ever had, and geesh... Why has it taken 3 years and EA to get me out there again???
Post whenever you need to FMV... Getting strong (as you know) is key to making your marriage work.