A match update: I finally got an email from a man that was a wonderful way to introduce himself in that awkward first email dance ... it said:

I was reading your profile and thought you sounded interesting if you read mine and would like to know more please feel free to ask, if not good luck with your search.

Have a great night.
(insert his name here)


I like that so I read his profile and wrote back. Ask a few questions to which he replied with another great follow up email asking more about me:

Sandycay,

Well you need to go to Vegas it is a blast I will be going agian in the summer. This is coming to you early as I am in (city) training this week so I am two hours ahead of you.

I am a sales rep for (company) and we do a lot of training.

My favorite thing to cook is italian but I cook a lot of tthings I just did a turkey a few weeks ago and I try new thing all the time it is a talent. LOL

So tell me about yourself what do you like to do besides run? smile

I do run as well and I work out about 4-5 days a week when works allows. I am not a gym rat but I do like being in shape. Do you like to vacation and where have you been?

Well I am off to (blank) look forward to hearing from you again.


Have a great day.

(insert name )

I changed some of the personal things on here that he put in. But I like the flow and the questions that he ask. Hunter guy did call last night but we didn't talk long and I don't even know if he knows my last name. LOL But it's now Thursday so he missed the opportunity to ask me out for the weekend.

Attorney guy wants to drive down tonight and see me but I don't know if I'm in the mood. I'll let him know later.

I have 2 major test on Monday so it will be a busy weekend. plus daughters birthday and soccer.

I talked to FFG exwife last night because their daughter is coming over for the sleepover (yea! I miss her so much) but boy did she share with me about FFG... not sure who is telling the truth between those two. But she did pay me some nice compliments about how she knew her kids loved me, and that i loved them... she thought I was very good for FFG and she had hoped and thought we would be getting married.. so that was nice.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too