speaking of okcupid-I met a documentarist (just made that word up) a couple of days ago. He is working on a documentary about the homeless. He lives in AZ but is moving to my area in 2 weeks.
Had fun, witty, intelligent IM chats. I was intrigued. Tonight I feel like I was living in Pearl Harbor when the US attacked: BOMB BOMB BOMB BOMB something like "I am in a bad mood tonight" (from him) to somehow ( I don't know how) I find out:
*he is a recovering addict for 4 years now but still smokes pot occasionally and drinks a beer every now and then
*he was homeless for awhile
*he was paralyzed in his hands and feet from a car accident 7 years ago but has regained most of his feeling/sensation
*he has two kids, 14 and 30 months that he is not allowed to see
*his ex filed a "bogus" restraining order but he left the state and never contested it so he lost access/rights to see his kids until they are 18 (I SMELL A PILE OF ROTTING FISH WITH THIS STORY!)
Oh, but "it is what it is" and he has dealt with it. (poor him- oh wait, his kids might be suffering too!)
Gee could I be leaving something out? His is 35 and his longest relationship has been 8-10 months (2 of them).
the sucky thing is that he is a "Taurus" and I have always wanted to go out with a Taurus! Damn....
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
