I gotcha.....I get it. I see the relation. H is being controlling with divorce process, and I reacted with fear in relation to his controlling. So H accomplished what he may or may not be trying to do.
I was afraid of losing my home, that is what got me fired up. It was fueled by something a friend had just been telling me about how, in these cases, the judge decides to sell the home, property etc, and splits the money.
I am not afraid anymore. Just at that time, fueled by outside circumstance.
Thanks for your response.
M\51- H\53 crisis-08 M-30 years 2-D's 25\22 ILYBINILWY - Feb 09 BD - Mar 09 Sep- May 09 NC -Jan 10 H fl'd papers Aug-10