Maybe you can let her take the initiative on the bed.
What women usually want when they talk to you....is for you to LISTEN. JUST listen. Sounds silly, huh...when you could help solve the frustration?
So....no problem...you just got information from your interaction. You've got data from a solution you tried. Now...next time try going against your natural instincts....catch yourself and just listen. Maybe even ask her a question to let her talk some more about it. Don't worry, there will be times when you will be allowed to solve the problem and she will be grateful for it.
