Update. I'm misreading the whole situation with my wife. I now think she brought up the divorce thing to get my attention. We got into a fight tonight because I told her friend about the EA with the guy. Of course, the friend called her and talk to her about it. W was mad and yelling at me. W is mad that I told my brother about it to. She said she has lots of reasons to stay, she said she doesn't need any. But I'm giving her reasons to leave. I feel horrible. Lesson learned guys. Keep your stuff to yourself, if you have to tell someone tell strangers.
I don't know where she is now. I think she really wants to stay married and work through this, but I keep screwing it up.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
