I feel more connected to your situations. My H has filed and is living in the unfinished basement of his old boss. He will not return - of that I am almost sure. We have limited to no contact - although I will see him Friday for the first time since July 30th at S's bb game.
My kids and I feel we are successful but we are all very sad about the loss of H. He's dating (according to what he tells the kids) - he likes her - but it's no big thing.
You all help me so much and I am very grateful.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time