Actually I was referring to W, she uses it to contact OMs. I think alot is dif about me, actually has been for the past year, but since she left I have also made changes. I can't say my W has made a single change, because of that I'd say it would be pointless to think it would work out at this point even if she came back. She still exhibits anger toward me, and based on my past efforts, faithfulness, being good to her, etc. It makes ZERO sense. So I'd say although I have changed, the marriage would be the same because she gas not. It would be the same song and dance... Me making the effort and her thinking she doesn't need to change and her mentality would probably still be, as she has said before, "me simply being here is trying enough".
If she continues to believe that being there is "trying", you're screwed. Perhaps by example you'll show that trying means lot more than that. Sorry but I don't have anything else for you with that symptom. It is truly blind of her. j
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
