I got scared and sent a text asking why the appraiser, am I going to lose my home?[quote]
As he has told me that I will not. He did send a text back telling me NO, I was not losing home. And that he told me I would not.
I was surprised that he has asked me what I need a month to live on, and he put an amount that I was very surprised to see. It was a lot more than I expected.[quote]
A couple of observations….
1) HE SAID, HE TOLD ME, HE, HE…. 2) Do you see what is happening? Read your post again. 3) Believe none of what you hear and 50% of what you see.
[quote]that MLCers love to control, and the divorce process is part of this.
Do you see any relation between this comment from Beatrice and YOUR post?
Fear? What are you afraid of?
Better yet, why are you afraid?
Sorry for the hijack BM,
Beatrice,
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I suspect that most women find it harder to detach than guys do. Just an observation , but the guys on the boards are definitely better at least appearing detached, and at pointing out we aren't.
Not sure that I agree with this statement BUT the reality is that detachment IMO, happens over time – true detachment I believe takes a very loooooong time.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
