Mila,

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So being with OW still takes priority over our business and over his daughter

One day Mila he will regret this. Continue to be the rock and consistent parent that your D needs.


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Feeling alone, overwhelmed with all the crap that I have to deal with no help from him at all.....business, household, lawyer, job hunting, house sale, money issues, D's graduation, university applications, school volunteering....and the list goes on....also with so many things up in the air right now, hard to make decisions for the future....very frustrating

Mila you’re not alone here. I’m in a similar spot. Center yourself and remember this too shall pass.

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and of course she fell in love with a little car that she really wants...but of course it's more money then she has so she was hoping that we can help with the difference....so she wants to call her dad...And he apparently told her "if mom said it's OK go for it"


1) can you and your H adopt me?
2) If yes, then can we go car shopping?
3) If we can, then I am really interested in the new BMW X5 BUT I’m about 65K short. Could I ask dad? LOL

smile Sorry I had to.

Cyrena – thank you for the “Drama Triangle” info. I found it totally fascinating.

God Bless,
Eric


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
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