I planned on waiting til today then writing a calm e-mail....but didn't even do that. The truth is he knows he was wrong, that's why he didn't answer either of his cell phones, and never acknowledged my calls. And this incident happened after this past weekend, when my son's finger seems to have been broken and nothing was done about it.
From what I can gather it happenedd Saturday evening when he was at one of X's friends houses, and X did nothing about it. Didn't take him to the ER, or even an urgent care. He didn't even let me know until abiut a half an hour before he ws supposed to be bringing my son home, which he was about 30 minutes late for that night also. And when we called about it he said he would take son to an orthopedic doctor the next day....big surprise that never happened. Nothing ever changes with my X.....he was a crappy husband and he is a crappy ex-husband. Sadly he is becoming a crappy father too....part of which I lay fault with the new Mrs. X. She is self-centered and he is becoming even more self-centered than he already was. Sad really....hard to believe I ever loved and respected him. Now I pity him. I would hate to be him...and am glad he is not a relevant part of my life anymore.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
