You have a point. I won't let the divorce prep take over. I just feel like I have to scramble for a bit. A lot of it has become very immediate for me now since he said he would file soon.
H has seperated his checking, leaving me with the account paying all the bills. He puts money in, but not as much as he spends. He still isn't getting paid at his new job either.
I think a lot of my "detaching" may just be distrusting him. He has done so much I didn't think he would ever do, that I don't think I can be caught unprepared.
Once I get a few ducks in a row, I will put it down. There isn't really much to do, I just don't want to be caught unprepared.
