I am not a medical professional but it seems to me that your H is clearly having some sort of crisis.
Since you are not piecing I suggest that you start a new thread over in the newcomers or mlc section of the boards. You original thread indicated that you have been reading for 2 years now; however you just started to post. What other complaints besides being needy has your H had?
Eric
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