Thanks T-

As far as the movie get together, I don't want to call it a date. She kind of initiated it, by texting me that this film is playing at a certain theater. being attentive, i asked her what times and dates, so she checked right away and then texted them to me, I responded with a "wanna go?", she said sure. I was giving a guitar lesson, so told her can't talk now, but will text when finished, she then asked about my son, who she is close with. It was nice.. So a little back story here, we have two dogs, which are at the house with me, she is in an apt which is to small, but she always comes over to see the dogs, at least once to three times a week. She let's me know by texting " I am on my way to see the pups".. again am I being to nice? I like being nice. I just don't want to be a door mat. Or is she getting her cake and eating too?

Thanks Trapt, and anyone else chiming in here. I really can't say enough thanks!!

Also it's weird for me to call myself this user name "Patience".. Is it best to keep doing this or can I at least use my first name?