Just catching up. Looks like you are doing great. I have started to realize that untill you REALLY start to detach, this is some of the hardest work you will ever do.

I have been short on advice lately. Just trying to get things figured out right now.

here is a link I keep going back to. I love it. It is on choosing joy. Hope it helps.

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/choose_joy-positive-mental-attitude.html
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