Okay, I guess I was overreacting to her. I'm keeping with the plan of friendly, kind, ready to talk about anything, not forcing R talk. So this evening she was going back to the office to finish some work. As she was leaving she paused for a bit look at me and then gave me a great big hug and said "Thanks for all the stuff you've been doing. You know because of everything."
It made me feel good.
Of course she could just be feeling guilty because she said she wanted a D. Nothing has changed on that front - at least that she's told me.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.