PMA: If I separate the finances, she will leave and move to Idaho with her aunt. I know that I can stop her from moving the kids out of state but then she either moves away by herself, leaving the kids behind, or she stays here with no means of survival and kids will suffer because they will be away from their mother or living with her in dire straits. Calling a lawyer at this point is a possibility, but then I have to decide if I tell her before or afterward and what her reaction will be in either case. I do not even know what that would accomplish other than starting the war.
Me 39 W 37 S 5 D 2.75 Married 12 years Together 14 years Bomb Dropped 08/16/10
