Oh yeah I know not to watch the kettle boil. Doing that especially when there are other things happening well.... LOL It was such a dramatic change but yes you are right. Trouble is I also find it fascinating. So to not watch goes against my interest in human behaviour. I am quite detached and will continue to journal what is happening. He isnaround so much that I may as well. My life does not hinge round his and I am normally quite detached. Nothing I can do will help him and I can only work on myself living life 'as if'. My interest in the workings of the mind has always existed and i can't help that such an interesting thing has been dumped in my lap. May not like it certainly can make the best of it though.
