I had a session with Dottie the other day and used what she had told me. It seemed to be affective.
Just remember, for certain things to turn around it may take weeks or months to see the results. All depends on exactly what those changes you wish to see are. Lack of patience is a big one when it comes to this.
Please also keep in mind that it is pretty common for the WAS to be all over the place emotionally. Nice one day, then the switch gets flipped back to cold and distant the next. It is EXTREMELY important for you to keep an even keel and be as consistant as you possibly can.
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I am trying not to make myself to available, but those were some of issues in the past. She felt as if she wasn't put first in my priorities. So would like some advise here.
I see your dilemma not wanting to come off as pursuing BUT if that is one of her complaints....
What do you think about what she said? How valid is it?
To be honest, I don't know enough about you, her, or your past to tell you exactly what to do.
I'm not sure by who or how the movie date was brought up, but it may be wise to let her initiate that one and see what happens.
This takes time, it's natural to want to push things.
What have you noticed so far? You backed away and she seemed to come a little closer? Well....
