If you met her when she was 24, how old was she when she married the first time? How long did it last?

I think there is a level of lack of maturity relationship-wise on your wife's part.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER