I thank you for chiming in.. She was M before. It was an abusive relationship. She has been in other R, and dated before her and I. She has new friends, which she calls "her new friends", as far as do the act single or ther R status i don' know. As far as me I have friends that are M and single, but all are respectful to thier spouses, and to me. Here is an update which I posted earlier: any advise here would be nice.. I had a session with Dottie the other day and used what she had told me. It seemed to be affective. Again I need to do these changes for myself, but I also have the goal to be with my wife. I am having a hrd time making small goals, and help is much appreciated: Update below:
I am in a pretty known band in Los Angeles, and she came to our show the other night, even though there was nothing mentioned of relationship, or divorce for that matter (Praise God), it was nice to be together.. I just wanted to hug her, but kept it cool. She now been keeping in touch via text with me, and we may go see a movie together this week.. I am trying not to make myself to available, but those were some of issues in the past. She felt as if she wasn't put first in my priorities. So would like some advise here.
