BBJ, I bet GG didn't flex his biceps right...I don't blame you. Hey let me know if you're running out of those pics I can send you some- you won't be disappointed. I can send you Arnold's, Stallone, Johnny Depp...or Obama's. Take your pick.
Seriously though I can sorta relate. I don't know if you remember but when I went out with a couple of girls a while back it wasn't that great for me either. The girls were nice but I had a few 'what am I doing here?' moments. I couldn't wait for it to be over. But later on I realized it was because one I wasn't very attracted to these girls (they're both pretty but just not my type) and two because I was expecting a deeper connection which didn't happen- probably a good thing! I didn't make out with them but one of them was very eager to have me over, go out with me again etc but I just couldn't do it so I let it die.
You learn from every experience and grow. You can't expect to meet the first or second person and fall madly in love with them. Which I think is a good thing because it shows you're not needy and you're not making poor choices just because you want someone to fill the hole in our lives.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again