NTGR,

You have asked me to pop over to your thread so here I am.

I read the first thread that you started in newcomers and honestly I cannot understand how or why you see yourself in "piecing".

Here are a few other observations.

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My biggest delima ios wondering do I want to have sex with him?

I am still not sure that YOU are in piecing perse, which is why this may be a delima for you. Honestly, the first step for me is to try and figure out if indeed YOUR H wants to work on the M.

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Im at the point where I need to make more goals as I have almost met the ones I originally set for myself.

What is stopping YOU? Want to make goals - great - then make'em.

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However, we have not had any R talks at all. Does one need that in order to peice?

IMO, yes - although R talks are normally not a good thing...how will you know that you are in piecing if you do not have some level of convo regarding where the R is going. Just because your H may provide a little more attention and give you a peck on the cheek does not mean that he is committed to trying to work on the M.

God Bless,
Eric


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