First, I realized by mid afternoon on Sunday that although I had a great time with golfguy Saturday night/Sunday morning, I really don't feel like I would care either way if I saw him again. That seems kind of messed up...
That's not messed up. It sounds like you are a woman who knows what she wants. Life it too short to waste time. Did you tell GG yet that you don't want to see him again?
I commend you for realizing it sooner rather than later.
Hugs!
Nope, and that's the part where I feel bad, I guess. Because all through the evening I was having a great time. And obv I chose to have a serious makeout session with him when we got back to the house. And a few hours after I left he sent a text thanking me for coming up and I replied that I had a great time. At that point I realized I did not have any urge to say, "Let's do it again", so I didn't. He texted me Monday night hoping I had a nice day, and I replied back an hour later with a "Yep I did hope you did too" or something, but I left it at that and have not initiated any more communication. Hoping it fizzles out. Heck it was two months since the time I saw him before this, and five months between the first two times, so I don't think he would expect an immediate follow up date anyway...
Meanwhile new match guy (can't think of a good name, banker didn't fit, I think I will go with sports guy bc he likes to watch college games) texted me mid-morning saying he enjoyed talking to me last night and looks forward to meeting me when our schedules line up. He already said that w/two daughters (13 & 18) he is moving sloooow, and I agreed given I have two little people at home. I think maybe Thanksgiving weekend we may hit a college basketball or hockey game in Omaha.
Ok time to eat. I am starting to have food fatigue, need to mix it up with my trainer when we meet. Getting sick of sweet potatoes, corn, and broccoli..
