In my opinion he wants the D to go through before working on your relationship because he KNOWS HE CAN'T COMMIT. Think about it, if you two where still married and he felt it was not working out then you would be stuck going through D all over again.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
