But I was hoping she might see this ultimatum as her family being on the line. This is her last chance to save it.
I rather use the term "consequence" than ultimatum. WAW's don't respond very well when offered an ultimatum. She will react out of anger....and she will chose OM over you. Don't count on throwing that at her thinking it will shock her into snapping out of the fog, b/c it won't.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
