W called me after she said was going to call me back last wed. after she took a shower...
That was a looooooong shower.
Of course it's about $. I did he taxes and we filed separately and she got a refund of $500.
Problem is they applied it to our unpaid balance from '08.
So "her" $ got applied and she is in a bad spot blah blah blah.
I tell her I can't send her any $ right now.
W: That's not fair! You are spending your $ on going to weddings etc. Going out whatever!
HERE IT COMES...I SH!T YOU NOT
W: You're living in fantasy land over their with your parents and living it up. I am just trying to survive!
Me: Look I am sorry you feel that way...You know a lot of things aren't fair. It is not really my responsibility for where you are right now. And it is not really any of your concern what I am doing with my life right now. I tried to get you the refund I didn't know they would apply it to unpaid balance. I am sorry.
W: It is my concern when your life effects me. I paid for a lot of things....
This is why our M does't work because you are so stubborn!
Ok so here is where I know this is going no where right? cause this is just F@cked up logic...
Me: I am sorry for where you are right now I am really am. I am not going to argue with you about our past $ or our M because that makes no sense. Until we both decide to commit to working on our problems. I sure don't want our old M so I agree with you.
Silence...tears....
me: I will put my half of our taxes into your account as soon as I can.
Silence
W?
Yes.
OK? I am sorry you are having such troubles I will let you know when I put the $ in.
Ok...
Me: I'll talk to you later.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
