First, I realized by mid afternoon on Sunday that although I had a great time with golfguy Saturday night/Sunday morning, I really don't feel like I would care either way if I saw him again. That seems kind of messed up...
That's not messed up. It sounds like you are a woman who knows what she wants. Life it too short to waste time. Did you tell GG yet that you don't want to see him again?
I commend you for realizing it sooner rather than later.