I told STBX that "that doesn't work for me." Once the D is done, that is it, there is no more R to speak of...then I had to get off the phone cause I was at the hospital. He also heavily implied he wanted to have sex with me. I know. 2x4 time! No sex will be had. But man it's been AWHILE. There is only so much my "alone time" suffices. LOL.
Originally Posted By: ImprovedRomeo
Good, and that's all he can say. It takes time for these things to sink in. Now break contact and don't indulge him anymore. Let him do the thinking and then some real work if he means what he says.
I like this. I like it a lot. It's your logical (as opposed to emotional) voice talking here. These are all red flags and you pointed them out yourself- that's great progress Sol.
So what are you going to do? it can't be more of the same that doesn't work right? You're done with talking, either you see action from him or you continue down the path you have i.e. rebuilding yourself and moving onward and upward.
