My biggest issue right now is the living apart. Also I am trying to get the house we lived in refied and its not easy. She lives across town from me now and I hope in a year she will want to move back home. But what if she does not? I don't know if I want a couple times a wee and weekend GF?
Well, try not to cross that bridge before you come to it. A lot can be done in a year. It's gotta be hard but I'm thinking good thoughts for patience for you! I fear you trying to rush her along, and miss the opportunity to sort out the conflicts that led to your disconnect and split.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.