Twom, Thanks would love to keep getting feedback or maybe I need to move the thread.I haven't posted in a couple days so I will update now. She spent two nights not at home with her family, last night she slept at home seperate room as it had been since D-Day. I have read DR just lost it the other day emotional overload. I am embracing it. Only communication is going to be daily must discuss with her. She is still taking steps to prepare to move out but the way she wants to do it will take a couple months. We are cordial we actually had a conversation and maintained eye contact. If i touch her hand she doesn't jolt away as she did 4 weeks ago. I actually got a real hug the other night that was the first since D-day. Does it mean anything I don't know. My goal: stay backed off and nice.
Compliment her when it fits into conversation.
No R Questions
Reading and re-reading the 180 list, in my pocket.

Unreasonable goal: Build my time machine to fix this and buy my crystal ball.

Thanks for the support
I need it.


H 37
WW 37
M 15
5 Children
Bomb 9-27-10
W EA/Pa
she filed 12-18-10