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[Lostinlife]

Thanks for the replies, let me try and answer, and then hopefully you can point me in the right diection...

I can try and not be available, and there won't be any fights, sure. I haven't done a good job at all with that, right now I still have the mindset my kids need one stable parent in this mess (she believes she is the stable one), and I always want to be there for them. They are suffering, you can see it.

So I need to work on that.

MrBond, great question, what have I been doing to pick up the slack? I really don't know (not being smart). I have been doing great things with the kids, we always have an adventure planned (it's easy this time of the year, hayrides, train rides, going to see Santa).

She doesn't talk to me, best way to decribe it, I am the deceased to her.

It just really gets to me that the boys are suffering, and she doesn't want to acknowledge it.

I have alot to work on.....

I look forward to any advice.