No more walking on eggshells about the phone--H went through my room and found the box it came in. Asked about it and I replied my sister gave it to me for Xmas.
He also found that I'd taken back my credit card (in my name on the account) and proceeded to cut it up with much flourish in front of me. Also got the other one out of his wallet and cut it up as well. I told him, Look H, if I had wanted to go on a shopping spree I'd have taken the other one, not the business one (we used it for getting gas and our cell phones--I just hate walking back and forth at the gas pumps with $60 + dollars to fill a diesel truck.)
Oh, I'm just such a sneak--a liar, a sneak, a theif (never mind he stole it out of my purse!) He was told by the C that we went to to give them back to me but does he listen? Course not.
So then later he invites me to lunch! And I show him the videos I took of S when we went to Epcot Monday. He saw a picture of gay neighbor (who helped me get the phone--took his picture that night) and H has a fit--what an idiot!! He is just so losing it! I'm like "It's PETER for heaven's sake!! You know, GAY friend!!"
He's telling me now that if I want money come and ask him. Yeah, that means come and listen to him berate me for his 10 minute screaming fix, and then he'll put money in the account.
I go back and forth between validating and just not wanting to hear it anymore--he's a broken record--he's so unhappy, I'm the spawn of the devil, he can't wait to be gone....whatever...
The DBing part of me wants to "test myself", but I do fail and then I'm hard on myself--he's obviously not right in the head, why do I care what he says?? Aren't I strong enough YET to just let it go by without thinking of what he is saying?? Not defending myself?
You know, I think I just talked myself into testing myself once more.lol. We talked about doing the money program on the computer together, since it has fallen into such a state of neglect since he took over the money. I was vascilating between doing it and just letting it go...
On a different note, our pastor's wife and their 2 daughters and sons-in-law were on Family Feud last week and Rod (who is married to one of the daughters) gave an answer to one of the questions and answered "Naked Grandma". It has caused a sensation! It's on youtube, has been on the Conan O'brian show, the Today show, the Soup--it's hysterical!! I'm going to a friend's to watch the shows (I forgot all about them, but she taped them) and I was *thinking* of asking if H wants to go--again, why I'm doing this I really don't know! Except at my Divorce and Support Care Group they said how much peace you will have if you have done absolutely everything you can.
And this does show my S that I did all I could. My friend would "get it" and would be very pleasant to H.
Anyway, if you want to see a funny clip--this guy preaches at my church!!
