No new updates.. I hhave been offered a fantastic job 4 and half hours away. It will require me to be gone 4 days a week and home on the weekends. I also will deploy for 1 year with 1 week off every couple of months.. the pay is incredible and will help the financial long term goals be met. Wife is supportive and I think the short term away for 4 days a week for a couple of months will help us build the trust needed for the long term deployment.
She is making genuine steps and has given me access to her cell phone and no longer is so secretive. She is affectionate, and passionate again and speaks often of the future.
MC has helped and she is looking forward to other sessions.
She wanted a hot tub and we got one. She calls the Hot tub, "our attorney fees".. lol that is pretty funny and money better spent.
I remain cautious and on guard for any signs of the EA coming back. I am not as paranoid about it anymore and not as jealous with her, I am simply matter of fact about it.
I will be gone like the setting sun if she picks up again with the OM...
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
